i've learned that life goes on, even when you have convinced yourself that it won't. that you may have been happier than you ever were, but you can still be as happy without that certain someone. i've learned that you truly can't put your everything into someone because that someone is never guaranteed. but the most important thing i've learned is that sometimes you need to stop and take the time to do you, and after you do that, everything will fall back into place.